Why can I not select the proper tax package they offer for my wife since we are filing together, choosing one package doesnt mean automatically do the others too. Greasy

If you are preparing your returns together with a spouse, then both returns are in the same file, so both will be using the same version of TurboTax. So, for example, even if only one of you is self-employed, you'll both be using the self-employed version, and will both be charged the same. 

 

If you don't want to use the same version as your spouse, you can prepare your returns separately.