Unfortunately, if you are using TurboTax Online, there is no way to change who gets the Disability transfer from a dependant. You can file the returns without the transfer and submit an adjustment to add the transfer later. Or redo the returns separately, so you can put the transfer on the right return without the software moving it to the wrong spouse.

What version of desktop is this change available on? 

@BChalms If you are using TurboTax Desktop, you have the option to choose which spouse will claim the DTC for a dependent.

In Forms mode, click on Dependent element on the top blue toolbar // enter the information for your dependent // select Disability transfer // and on the right side of Disability Transfer, select the name of the spouse who will claim.

Note, it is not the same instruction when one of the spouse is the one with a disability.

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